1. My partner is often very critical of me.
2. I hate the way my partner raises an issue.
3. Arguments often seem to come out of nowhere.
4. Before I know it, we're in a fight.
5. When my partner complains, I feel picked on.
6. I seem always to get blamed for problems.
7. My partner is negative all out of proportion.
8. I feel I have to ward off personal attacks.
9. I often have to deny charges leveled against me.
10. My partner's feelings are too easily hurt.