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Chris Parker |
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10 March 2004 |
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Happiness Together Report
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| Chris, household or family problems are hurting your relationship. |
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Your score in this test means that the problems in your family are burdening your relationship with your partner. For example, one common problem is that one partner hasn't separated from his or her parents yet.
If both score poorly, then both partners may have problems with ties to the parental home. Your mother and/or father (for you and your partner's parents for him or her) are more important to you in making decisions than your partner is. Of course, this is a serious problem. However, subconscious aggression often aggravates things. You must both try to develop a greater sense of belonging together. Only then will you be able to keep yourself separate from your parents.
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| Stage I: Romantic Love - Convicted of LUI (Loving Under the Influence) |
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The Romantic Love stage often feels so good that you want it to last forever. In fact, you expect it to last forever! In a new job or a new love, everything seems perfect at first. When you see things that you don't like, you might deny or at least minimize them. You tend to go above and beyond what is required or expected. You feel energized, alive, and filled with new dreams. In romantic relationships, your heart is filled with love and you know that this person loves you. You both find many ways to show your love. When you're apart, you are thinking of one another. Everything feels right. Some people feel a sense of finally 'being home' or of being 'complete', feeling alive and connected.
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| Love cannot exist without three things |
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| 1. A realistic expectation for the partnership |
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Newlyweds may build castles in the air and promise to make each other happy to the end of their days. Unfortunately, the farther the distance from reality, the less realistic the expectations are, and thus the smaller the chances for success are. If you expect everything from a partnership-happiness, financial security, emotional comfort, entertainment, social position, and eternal faithfulness- and preferably everything at once the odds are that you'll be by yourself within a short period of time. You would do better to look at the decision as an experiment, as a courageous undertaking worth mobilizing all your strengths, showing your best side, but still an experiment that succeeds or fails depending on your own effort.
That makes you humble and saves you from accusing your partner of faults. It also provides the distance and composure to imagine the impossible: that you are getting on the other person's nerves, too.
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Detailed explanations on how you should deal with the problems in your relationship and much more only in your Personalized Happiness Together Report.
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